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7 phrases to help you break the ice and navigate new social situations

These English idioms will help you talk about hitting it off with someone – or, on the flip side, giving them the cold shoulder
byCherish Chiu
Published: 1:00am, 31 Aug 2026
Length: 348 words
7 phrases to help you break the ice and navigate new social situations

How do you break the ice with new classmates? Illustration: Shutterstock

How do you talk to someone you’ve just met? Do you say hello, shake hands or crack a joke?

At the start of the school year, you meet new teachers and have chances to make friends. Thus, it’s the perfect time to dive into English phrases to describe hitting it off, embracing a new crowd and navigating the complexities of modern relationships.

1. Hit it off

Meaning: to quickly become good friends with someone

Example: I was nervous about the dinner, but we hit it off immediately.

2. Get on like a house on fire

Meaning: to get along with someone and become friends very quickly

Example: I introduced her to my roommates, and they got on like a house on fire.

3. Take a rain check

Meaning: to decline an invitation now but say you would like to accept it later

Example: I’m swamped at work, so I’ll have to take a rain check on dinner.

4. Chew the fat

Example: to have a long, relaxed conversation with someone

Example: Let’s grab a coffee this weekend and just chew the fat.

5. Paint the town red

Meaning: to go out and have a fun-filled night with friends

Example: There are so many new places I want to visit; let’s paint the town red.

6. Give (someone) the cold shoulder

Meaning: to ignore someone on purpose or treat them in an unfriendly way

Example: After their heated argument yesterday, Sarah decided to give him the cold shoulder all through lunch.

7. The life of the party

Meaning: the most energetic and funny person in a social gathering

Example: Even though Julian is usually quiet at work, he becomes the life of the party as soon as the music starts.

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