Telling someone you don’t like their gift can be challenging. But it seems like you care about your friend’s feelings, which is good. Here are a few ways to talk to her:
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Thank your friend: Start by thanking them for being kind and giving you the gift. Then, ask her why she chose that for you. Maybe her explanation will help you appreciate the gift!
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Share your thoughts: Once you understand why your friend chose this gift, you can share how you feel honestly. Tell her why you don’t like it so that she knows what to give you in the future.
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Give feedback: Be helpful and kind with your words. Let your friend know what kind of gifts you like. Or perhaps, you don’t want gifts but prefer going on play dates with your friend. Tell them what makes you happy!
Remember, what you like doesn’t have to be the same as what your friend likes. Everyone has different interests, and that is OK.
Talk it out
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Have you ever received a present that you didn’t like? What was it, and why didn’t you like it?
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If you were to give your best friend a gift, what would it be?
