Difficulty: Explorer (Level 1)
That does sound disappointing. But you could also see this as a great opportunity to learn about a different kind of leadership within the group. Working well in a team is also a very valuable skill.
Lead by example
Show your group and your friend how much this project means to you. This means being the person who is always ready to help and put in effort. When a problem comes up, try brainstorming and offering solutions rather than just pointing out what is wrong. Do your part well; this will encourage others to do the same.
Support your friend
Your friend is also learning. They have a chance to figure out their own leadership style. You can help them by being a supportive and understanding team member.
Remember: a project’s success does not depend on just one person. It takes a whole team. Talk to your group often. Make sure everyone knows what they need to do and that you are all working towards the same goal. When you finish, make sure to thank and recognise everyone for their hard work.
Focusing on these qualities will help you develop the skills that make a good project leader.
This response has been vetted by Cherrie Chung, a mental health counsellor and psychotherapist at Insight Counselling
