It’s perfectly normal to be nervous when trying to make new friends, so relax! Here are a few tips that may help you open up:
Use your hobbies to meet people It is easier to make friends with someone when you already have something in common. For example, if you love football, join a football team to meet new people. This will help you feel more comfortable because you already know what you can talk about.
Keep being kind
Kindness is important in relationships. You can be kind by doing things like complimenting people, helping them and being a good listener.
Being a good listener means paying attention to what the other person is saying and really trying to understand them. It also means asking questions and showing an interest in learning about them.
Keep an open mind
Even if you follow our advice, it’s still OK to feel lonely. It takes time to make close friends. Instead of thinking, “I’m alone,” try thinking, “I get to spend some time with myself!” You can do things you enjoy by yourself, such as taking a walk in nature.
It’s also important to stay positive. Keep looking for ways to meet new people and make friends.
Talk it out
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When you’re talking to someone about your hobby, be sure to listen to what they have to say, too. What sorts of questions can you ask about their interests?
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How can you help others be more comfortable if they are feeling shy?
